"...our own teeth would bite our tongue.."
i would forgive anything under the stars but cheating is a deal-breaker.
oh! i forgot....emotional, mental and physical abuses are also deal breakers.
Are abusers remorseful of what they did to their significant other whom they are supposed to "love"? Of course their concept of love is "I just want to teach her a lesson because that's what my religion taught me....i am the one to guide her..." Okay, buddy..you are so way out of line here. No religion would teach you to harm others unless it is to defend yourself... and definitely not to the one whom you are sharing your life with. Not to anyone. Period.
[Quran 30:21] "Among His proofs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, in order to have tranquility and contentment with each other, and He placed in your hearts love and care towards your spouses. In this, there are sufficient proofs for people who think."
